SEPARATION ANXIETY

"separation anxiety happens when the child discovered the concept of object permenance,whereby something or someone still exists when out of her sights."


i think all mothers have experienced this situation when we wanted to send off our child to nursery or pre-school.n it really happened to me when damia was 8months when i was impromptu sent her to the nursery due to some problems encountered that week.so basically as soon as i put her down on the mattress,her face started to look wierd n then...1...2...3...im out from there (episod seterusnya mesti nangisss punye!,tapi buat2 x dengar) adoiyaaa the worst thing is she continued crying until the clock strikes 5pm!hohoho minum pun x nak,berhingus gile selekeh sume benda x nak.nak kene dukung jek.so i decided to take on leave the next day!aiyakkk



so ive been thinking to put her back to nursery again! when she turns 1year old.n i dun think its gonna work!so here are some tips that i read to soften the blow:


1) place ur child with alternate caregiver- aku rase mia lagi cuak kot!


2) do not sneak away without her knowledge,instead tell her that i'll be back n she will be alright- aku rase mia x mudah tertipu dan ditipu.kuang3

3) before u leave,give her your photo or keychains or anything so that she will know that u will come back for it and her.- aku rase bila mia tengok barang2 aku lagi dia meraung2 nak blk!kuang3

4) you can also read books to her about going to nursery or pre-school n going on new adventures-hopefully mia leh terimala..


5) lastly,make informal visits n walk around the place with her n tell her what she will be doing n toys that she can play with..-aku rase time aku ade dgn dia mmg dia nk main lah..time aku nak cabut blk,dia melalaklah

this is such an everyday occurance.nak gi basuh baju jek sibuk tarik2 kain n nangis2 ape kes??

n if damia can speaks..she will say:

kuang3!