Happy 9th

Oh WOW!Alhamdullilah...i don't believe tomorrow 5th June gonna be our 9th wedding anniversary..For me,real love is not based on romance,candle light dinner,walks along the beach or watching the sunsets together.But it is more than that coz falling in love is easy but staying in love requires hard work.According to research there are stages in marriage life..The 1st 5 yrs is like heaven on earth coz everything seems flawless n perfect.the next 5yrs is more challenging coz the spouse have different needs and get easily angry or unsatisfied if the needs not fulfill.That's y according to statistics divorce cases are high at this time frame.At this stage,I believe love is not about holding hands while u understand each other but it's about having MANY misunderstandings and not leaving each other hands.In my opinion,marriage is like an empty box.U must put something in before u can take it out.There's no love in marriage.Love is in people and people put love in marriage.There's no romance in marriage coz u have to put in to ur marriage box.If u take out more than put in,the box will be empty.Having said that,that's y when ur dating/couple all the loves in the air coz ur at that stage of giving the love~~

But somehow it is easier said than done..so the best n successful marriage is when living in Allah's obedience.am i right??

*throwback 2004.hahahaha