SELAMAT HARI RAYA KORBAN..lusa saya akan sambut di rumah sedara di melaka (in laws) oh talking about in laws..im very thankful n fortunate to have in laws who are very sporting,supportive,helpful n fun.dlm pada masa yg sama ramai yg di luar sana selalu cite pasal ketidakpuasan hati dgn keluarga mertua ..dan tanggapan itu salah coz i believe ramai lg yg hidup aman dgn in laws family..in fact we are like the origin family..anyway i just wanna share the behaviour n attitude of my mother in law which i think she is just like my own mother n saya rase apa saja yg dia buat lebih daripada my own mother..but of course my mama still the best :) what i have learned from her:
- sentiasa merapatkan silaturahim coz utk pjg umur kena rapatkan silaturahim esp dgn sedara2..n im learning this coz im not the type of person yg social sgt utk beramah mesra dgn org..so wat i did was try to attend any wedding invitations xkirala yg rapat atau kwn kepada kwn ke..n visit org sakit even sedara kpd sedara ke..hehe
- dia seorg yg mementingkan tarikh2 keramat.maksudnya harijadi,anniversary,konvo day.mesti ada hadiah n mkn2.sesiapa yg konvo mesti dia buatkan a bouquet of flowers on her own..n i think its a good example for my family coz will bond the loving relationship among the family members.
- she's willing to take care my daughter since she was 3mths coz damia used to cry a lot.n i bet i will take care of my grandchildren in the future.hehe
-she also take care of me during confinement period.she is there with me n the baby..in fact she cooked all the pantang food n also urut aku..n i think my own mother wont do like that..
-dia seorg yg sanggup buat ape saja utk org lain x kira dari segi wang,masa n tenaga..when she is sick she still cook n serve her husband to eat. i think i cannot do just like her!
- dia seorg mementingkan n mengutamakan suami dlm semua hal.dlm hal ni aku kalah n surrender.even she is sick,still cook for her husband,serve him first,check him if hes being left out if in a goup of people..betapa taatnya dia pada suami..n its hard for me to do so..
all i can say is ...SYUKUR
- sentiasa merapatkan silaturahim coz utk pjg umur kena rapatkan silaturahim esp dgn sedara2..n im learning this coz im not the type of person yg social sgt utk beramah mesra dgn org..so wat i did was try to attend any wedding invitations xkirala yg rapat atau kwn kepada kwn ke..n visit org sakit even sedara kpd sedara ke..hehe
- dia seorg yg mementingkan tarikh2 keramat.maksudnya harijadi,anniversary,konvo day.mesti ada hadiah n mkn2.sesiapa yg konvo mesti dia buatkan a bouquet of flowers on her own..n i think its a good example for my family coz will bond the loving relationship among the family members.
- she's willing to take care my daughter since she was 3mths coz damia used to cry a lot.n i bet i will take care of my grandchildren in the future.hehe
-she also take care of me during confinement period.she is there with me n the baby..in fact she cooked all the pantang food n also urut aku..n i think my own mother wont do like that..
-dia seorg yg sanggup buat ape saja utk org lain x kira dari segi wang,masa n tenaga..when she is sick she still cook n serve her husband to eat. i think i cannot do just like her!
- dia seorg mementingkan n mengutamakan suami dlm semua hal.dlm hal ni aku kalah n surrender.even she is sick,still cook for her husband,serve him first,check him if hes being left out if in a goup of people..betapa taatnya dia pada suami..n its hard for me to do so..
all i can say is ...SYUKUR
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