2 days ago i received gift from my Chinese patient..i was so surprised coz i rarely received any gifts from Chinese patients.what makes us in common is we are moms!hehe i want to tell u the story behind the gifts.ok frankly speaking i am the person who is easily influenced by other people's attitude whether its good or bad.hehe n i am easily fascinated and admire people who succeed in their life whether it could be in their career,marriage or education.so this mother of 4 daughters really succeed in her parenting.first she is only a housewife!she never graduated in any university n yet she can raised,educate all her children to the optimum level.her first daughter just graduated from Australia uni,second still studying there also,3rd just finished her form 4 and soon going to do a level there also following her elder sisters n the last one just finished her UPSR n got 7as! coz she took mandarin subjects.ok then i wonder how she able to raise her children so damn well n i fell there was no difficulties throughout the journey n it seems all went PERFECTLY!jeles ok?at least in a family kalau org melayu mesti sorang tu drop out la,xpandai sgtla or xmasuk uni la.huh tensen pun ade dgr makcik ni cite.so basically this what she told me:
- she sent all her children to Chinese school since primary.this is becoz she wants to train their children to be discipline.she told me the school really gives u homework to do every day compared to sekolah biasa yg kekadang mesti blk uma xde keje sekolah.n furthermore they have to learn mandarin words.u know yg tulisan cina byk characters tu.she said they really have to study how to write n memorize the words everyday!if u dont know the words then u fail.
-then this mother taught her children to do puzzles since small.thats y she gave me the puzzles.to make u expert in maths.she said she will bring puzzles,books if go to eat outside.meaning while waiting the food she teach them puzzles n games instead of making noise at the dining table.and as far as i remember everywhere i go whether to malls or eatery outlets mesti ade depa bwk books kasi anak baca at one corner.u can check urself out!
-and during weekend she send her children to learn music n go to centre where u can learn maths at higher level compared to what being taught at school.huh aku rase kalau org melayu dh mengeluh dahla sekolah smpai ptg pastu weekend kene belajar gak.n what makes me impressed is she finished al the music sylabus n the maths program till highest level.kalau kita mesti memberontak kt mak ckp mlasalah,penatla.
-n i really admire this women coz basically she is the one who sacrificed a lot in educating her children dgn tiada rase mengeluh pun!her husband just cari duit jek.kalau org melayu mesti dok pikir laki depa akan kawen lain lah..akan tinggalkan bini lah blah2 la.n this women really seems not worry that part much but really worried about thier children's education.huh!stress aku tulis ni.hehe
-besides that she taught me to do savings from now. this part im really impressed.she saves a lot!i wonder how she can send her children to oversea with their own money since they all are not applicable to get loan from govermnet n all this onher own money!baju anak2 sumenya share2 n turunkan ke anak number 2 n 3.seingat aku dulu mesti aku marah kalau pakai baju kakak.hehe but her children didnt complain that much coz she taguht them to share in lifes.she also taught me to share books.she said her friends or cousins share school text books if they not use anymore.n they dont mind to get buku bantuan at school.i think this way really can save a lot of money!n she asked me to open education savings account for mia.she really stressed me to save from NOW!n look at her dressing really simple coz i think she must saved a lot!n again im impressed!!if u noticed kita jek yg nak lawa2 ,depa xkesah pun tu sume yg penting anak2 pandai.oh how am gonna do that?hehe
basically i really respect their culture coz they really make education as number 1 priority.n guess wat all the gifts above actually not the new one.the gifts belongs to her daughters.hehe see ive told u she teach me to share n the stuffs really in good condition n i bet the took care the stuffs so damn well!n at the back of the note,she wrote 'do call me this is for ur help' hehe she really wants to help me in parenting!cheers :D
- she sent all her children to Chinese school since primary.this is becoz she wants to train their children to be discipline.she told me the school really gives u homework to do every day compared to sekolah biasa yg kekadang mesti blk uma xde keje sekolah.n furthermore they have to learn mandarin words.u know yg tulisan cina byk characters tu.she said they really have to study how to write n memorize the words everyday!if u dont know the words then u fail.
-then this mother taught her children to do puzzles since small.thats y she gave me the puzzles.to make u expert in maths.she said she will bring puzzles,books if go to eat outside.meaning while waiting the food she teach them puzzles n games instead of making noise at the dining table.and as far as i remember everywhere i go whether to malls or eatery outlets mesti ade depa bwk books kasi anak baca at one corner.u can check urself out!
-and during weekend she send her children to learn music n go to centre where u can learn maths at higher level compared to what being taught at school.huh aku rase kalau org melayu dh mengeluh dahla sekolah smpai ptg pastu weekend kene belajar gak.n what makes me impressed is she finished al the music sylabus n the maths program till highest level.kalau kita mesti memberontak kt mak ckp mlasalah,penatla.
-n i really admire this women coz basically she is the one who sacrificed a lot in educating her children dgn tiada rase mengeluh pun!her husband just cari duit jek.kalau org melayu mesti dok pikir laki depa akan kawen lain lah..akan tinggalkan bini lah blah2 la.n this women really seems not worry that part much but really worried about thier children's education.huh!stress aku tulis ni.hehe
-besides that she taught me to do savings from now. this part im really impressed.she saves a lot!i wonder how she can send her children to oversea with their own money since they all are not applicable to get loan from govermnet n all this onher own money!baju anak2 sumenya share2 n turunkan ke anak number 2 n 3.seingat aku dulu mesti aku marah kalau pakai baju kakak.hehe but her children didnt complain that much coz she taguht them to share in lifes.she also taught me to share books.she said her friends or cousins share school text books if they not use anymore.n they dont mind to get buku bantuan at school.i think this way really can save a lot of money!n she asked me to open education savings account for mia.she really stressed me to save from NOW!n look at her dressing really simple coz i think she must saved a lot!n again im impressed!!if u noticed kita jek yg nak lawa2 ,depa xkesah pun tu sume yg penting anak2 pandai.oh how am gonna do that?hehe
basically i really respect their culture coz they really make education as number 1 priority.n guess wat all the gifts above actually not the new one.the gifts belongs to her daughters.hehe see ive told u she teach me to share n the stuffs really in good condition n i bet the took care the stuffs so damn well!n at the back of the note,she wrote 'do call me this is for ur help' hehe she really wants to help me in parenting!cheers :D
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