JOURNEY OF MY LIFE...

tests n trials

2012-02-19T09:59:00.000+08:00

i do believe in this life we have been tested from Allah in many form of test.it may could be problems about your career,life,health,relationship,love,parenting your children,finances,marriage life,education,in studies or even loss of the love ones, n so on..sometimes we think that everything goes wrong but we never realize that Allah has setting the RIGHT thing for u..in this life Allah has planned our journey.n what make the difference is our hardwork,doa n the rest leave it to Allah.but somehow we are not strong enough to face the test even how many times we tell ourselves to stay calm n accept the qada n qadar..

just like to share with all readers out there..

yess i admit im struggling to calm this feeling that the fact that im miscarriage at 9 weeks.anyway everything happens for a GOOD reason :))

2nd Child

2012-02-09T23:12:00.001+08:00

for this time pregnancy i dun feel so excited..in other words i feel simply pretty plain simple feeling which i dun share my feelings that much compared the previous one..in fact i told only my few closest friends...by the way im scared being pregnant the second child even though that is my wish before i reach 30 yrs old..the main reason im scared is i dun know whether it is a taboo,syndrome,or maybe its just people psychology,or maybe it's a myth or maybe its a FACT of having 2nd child..i found this research n in fact based on real people they are quite the same as the research..

Alfred Adler, an Austrian psychiatrist who lived around the same time as Sigmund Freud, was one of the first theorists to suggest that birth order may influence personality. He suggested that birth order leaves a life-long impression on one’s style of life, the way s/he deals with friendship, love, and work. Other things that influence a person are parental attitude, illnesses, disabilities, gender, and the social, economic and religious situation of the family. Other things that should be considered along with birth order are the spacing of years between the siblings, the total number of children, and the parent’s situation over time. The influence of birth order on the development of personality has long been a controversial issue in psychology. Some are in strong agreement that birth order does affect personality, and others disagree completely.

Now, some parents may argue that the second child is not treated any differently than the first child was. But let’s be honest. After you’ve seen your first child take a first step, say a first word, and do all of those other firsts, it’s a little less remarkable to see it in your other children. Whether or not you want to admit it, the middle or second child will always be competing for the lime light with the oldest and youngest children. This is one of the main causes of middle or second child syndrome.

Second or middle children usually bemoan their fate as being ignored by everyone in the family. They may grow resentful or all the attention given to the oldest and youngest of the family. Second born children will often try to be the exact opposite in personality, interests, etc. from the first born child. S/he will often do almost anything for parental attention, even if that means being naughty. Parents tend to be much easier and less demanding on the second and third children. Middle or second children have to compete to be heard or noticed, and therefore crave the spotlight in other ways. They may be the loud, boisterous child in school. They may be the center of all their friends’ events.

The middle or second born child often have a feeling of not belonging to the group. Being in the middle can make the second child feel insecure. They may lack the drive and motivation that is so prevalent in the first born. The second child may instead look to the first born for direction. This may also make the second born feel out of place because they aren’t over achievers. Instead, the middle child usually just goes with the flow.

Second born children are often loners. They may have trouble latching on to a person in a relationship. They may also have trouble making decisions in school and in a career. Second or middle borns are usually artistic and creative, but don’t work well under pressure. They have a history of starting projects and never finishing them. When choosing a career, most middle or second children would be best suited for something where they could freely express themselves, have flexible hours and frequently changing projects.

in other article:

ANAK DEGIL
Anak kedua dikatakan lebih degil, keras kepala dan tidak mendengar kata. semua dia ajer yg betul..dlm ramai2 adik beradik dia aje yg xnak dgr ckp .. kemahuan dia kuat.. kalau buat sesuatu sungguh2… kalau tak nak tu, tak nak lah jawabnya, boleh dipujuk tapi selalunya tak berapa jalan..

TAK PANDAI PUJUK
memang anak no 2 ni dia tak pujuk makwe / pakwe dia..

BERCINTA
kalau bercinta, sangat setia…sanggup berkorban …

HITAM / PUTIH
Apa yg dikatakan semua dipegang kalau hitam2 hitamlah kalau putih …. putihlah ….degil tak boleh toleransi

HATI
No 2 ni juga nampak ajer keras…tp hati dia lembut juga….SATU lagi peel dia…dia tak boleh ditegur….kalau kita tegur dia mesti tarik muka

BERDIKARI
very independent..mmg betul..tp kalau terlebih indepent pun payah…..Tp mudah bergaul..campak lah kat manapun sekejap dah dapat kawan..very take care of her brother and all stuff belonging family.( sebab terlalu ambil berat pun menyampah semua adik2 kena control kena report kat diorang ) ..

ARAHAN
anak no 2 ni juga dia payah nk terima arahan…dia lebih suka buat hal sendiri pendek kata..tak boleh kerja ngan org

PEMAAF & caring
tak dinafikan no 2 ni pun pemaaf & caring…TAPI awas jgn bg diorg marah….kalau marah faham susah nak maafkan

PAKAIAN
Nak ajer up to date…semua nak kemas....

to be honest most of them above is true coz i,me n myself is the second child in the family :(

Craving

2012-02-08T20:47:00.001+08:00

what is craving?craving is eager,desire to get something especially craving for food.. in malay word is mengidam.in my opinion craving can be controlled by our mind during pregnancy but somehow it just happens!i think the imbalance chemical in the brain can lead to craving.i can't doubt that i have the cravingness during 1st pregnancy.i craved for nasi lemak!can u imagine bfast lunch n dinner with nasi lemak.n its not complete if theres no nasi lemak on that day.in fact if i want to eat at 12 am he has to find it...so i blame the pregnancy hormone!hehe

past few weeks i craved for ice cream!actually im not the type of person who like to eat something that sweet.but i can't help myself looking for ice cream every now n then..n that time i felt i must be pregnant coz i know how my body changes.

for the first time in my life i bought BR this big size portion at night n i ate all by myself without feeling guilty at all!

n the other day i really went out at night just want this TF.

my current craving is ice cream.how about u?

SHY PEOPLE

2012-02-07T23:37:00.003+08:00

this Thursday i have to give a talk in front of group of people (staffs).i think I'd rather give a talk to unknown people coz absolutely they don't know me well..anyway i can't escape anymore even i have the escapism attitude.hehe coz the management selected me n in fact we have to give talk as rotation every month!FML! so the thing that my mind says when i have to give talk is i think the audience won't dare to talk at the front too!huhu so pikir positif jekla..nak kutuk kutukla mcm la korang berani nk ckp kt depan tu kan??hikhikhik anyway... i wonder my job actually requires me to give talk now n then..for health education/promotion.oh FML again!heheh having said that,i came across an article in yahoo about careers for shy people who seldom or very rare to communicate with others.they are:

-those who work at forensic site

-jobs in the library

-jobs that related to computer science or engineering

-career in billing jobs

-graphic designer

ok so these career actually does not much involve interaction with people n u can do ur own work at peace n u dun have to be good in communication skills..I WISH i can work in the library.hehe

ok now im merapu n stupid of me!!!!!!!! :((

GARRETT

2012-01-30T19:51:00.000+08:00

hari ni amek half day n have sweetest escape to klcc to grab sweetest popcorn yg famous diperkatakan skrg ni Garret.so there are many types of popcorns: cashew,macadamia or crispy or cheese caramel.so for me yg mempunyai tekak melayu i better to be safe n try taste normal plain flavour - caramel popcorn..frankly speaking it is not that awesome as people said..cuma caramel nya byk n tebal popcorn nya..n when garret said gone in 60 secs.i dun think so for those who not in love with sweet taste..the small packet costs rm16.Oh btw garrett juga boleh didapati di one utama.

gambar pun google jek :)

PREGGY MOM

2012-01-28T19:26:00.002+08:00

alhamdullilah...it has been 5weeks old..anyway my feelings are mixed!surprise,happy,n feel not-so-excited.i dunno..maybe im not ready yet...or maybe the feelings are not as excited as the first one..n i had done scan yesterday n it was seem unclear coz just a small sag..thats y i chose not to update any status in my fb until further notice (wait for another 2 weeks scan baru nampak beso sket) hehehe...

so for this time preparation im not into kind of searching or buying or browsing branded clothes,strollers or other baby's stuffs.coz the baby can use mia's stuffs..but now im more into reading,do research,attend any breastfeeding talk!im gonna make sure i will accomplish this mission coz my mental is ready with this.on top of that i will behave myself coz the baby will inherit my attitude..ustaz harun din ckp anak dlm kandungan akan ikut perangai ibunya..owh so now i want to be more quiet ..it means i dunt want to be so kepochi or join in a group of gossip people..coz nanti jadik mcm mia!hahahha my friend's son used not to cry even in her confinement period..compared to mia she cries all the time for first 6 months!!urghhhh soo now i have to smile,be happy ,laugh n watch more funny movies!n not ombak rindu!kekekkek

i guess after this u guys will see this blog about mommy-breastfeed thingy..cheers~~

sharing is caring :)

2012-01-24T22:12:00.000+08:00

✿Belajarlah BERSYUKUR walau KEKURANGAN
✿Belajarlah IKHLAS walau TAK RELA
✿Belajarlah TAAT walau BERAT
✿Belajarlah MEMAHAMI walau TAK SEHATI
✿Belajarlah SETIA walau BANYAK GODAAN
✿Belajarlah MEMBERI walau TAK SEBERAPA
✿Belajarlah MENGASIHI walau kau DISAKITI
✿Belajarlah TENANG walau kau sedang GELISAH
✿Belajarlah PERCAYA walaupun SUSAH
✿Percaya bahawa Allah SWT masih sanggup menolongmu

Donut Pedas

2012-01-18T22:30:00.001+08:00

have u tried donut pedas before?yesss it exists actually in this world especially in johore!owhh its my current craving.i can easily get this donut when i was in secondary school.now i already get the recipe from web n wish me luck to do it.

CNY

2012-01-18T22:11:00.001+08:00

OWHHH CNY just around the corner..nahhh i dont celebrate it but im looking forward to go back to my hometown 83000 batu pahat johor!really can't wait.u know wat my vacation for the past 2 yrs mostly just go back to hometown.owhhh so damn pathetic!plezz i need vacation other than my hometown! eheheheh but who cares?

bak kata pepatah :

gendang gendut tali kecapi,
kerja teruk,pergilah bercuti.HAHAHA ape yg aku merapu ni??

anyway since CNY quite long (actually just 3 days to be exact for me!) i have planned to do ,to shop,to look n where to eat later on.

sunday (22 jan) -
lunchtime attend friend's wedding at dewan.after wedding go to back of the dewan.they have tempe goreng the best in BP that i've never tried before.
-brunch: eat goreng pisang tanjung labuh with kicap pedas!(johorean style.oh yeah!)
-pm : go to tasek Y play with mia.eat rojak there.
-dinner: jeng kuan (satay n mee bandung) perghhhh

monday (23 jan)
bfast- lontong kering at old bus station
luch- asam pedas at balai bomba/nasi campur asam manis near carefour (never tried before!)
dinner- black paper steak at 1001 mlm/mee racun (never tried before too!)
mlm sket stroll at dataran BP (owh jakun again!)

ok as u all noticed most of the famous food i've never tried before..i also dunno y.maybe zaman dulu aku asyik dok terperuk kt uma jek kot!oh damn it!

n plezzz tell me that all my dreams will come true this time ever!!

blah..blah..blah...

2012-01-18T01:03:00.002+08:00

Sex therapist

2012-01-14T15:28:00.003+08:00

last month i received a phone call from a man who asked for sex therapist. asal dgr word terapi mesti office transfer the call to my department.n for the first time in my 6yrs working experience i ever received such a call.n that moment i was like shocked,or more like to 'pardon me?' 'can u repeat?' coz the men spoke too soft (maybe he is shy) at that time.so at that moment what came across my mind was is there anyone out there work as sex therapist?coz i've never heard that before!so at last i just said sorry there's no services provided here.after i hung up the phone i think it may be not sex therapist that he might looking for,but psychologist i guess.so what the issues that i want to bring up here is Malaysian people rarely or seldom discuss their sex life problem compared to western countries.n i guess there is only one well known Dr that related to this matter.

Having said that, last year i accidentally bought this book.at first i don't know what the book is all about.coz i was attracted with the cartoons on the book's cover,n i thought the book must be in relax n funky story.furthermore the book is wrapped with plastic n i can't open it at that time.n furthermore the time i bought this book was carnival books fair.so i just grab anything that attracted to me n those books were on 50% off.

so after i read the book...i realized the book discuss about sex problems in married life (of course lah kan?) it contains more about the question n answer from the author who obviously popular in this issue.so i strongly recommend this book for those married 6 yrs n above n anybody that encounter such problems.bak kata kwn saya -org perempuan kalau x puas,dia xberitau laki dia-hahahah wtf?n i noticed to my surprise there are more men than women that have such problems!huhu. n it is advisable for husbands to read also.coz men lazy to read this kind of books coz they think they know better!but trust me they know nothing!hahahaha
but i advice those who are still single better don't read it at all coz im afraid u will afraid of getting married coz its more to psychological issues related to sex.

Balqis Damia

2012-01-12T22:23:00.002+08:00

rasenya dh lama x update cerita si balqis damia yg kecoh ni..well she is now 2 yrs n 4mths.n alhamdullilah she never been hospitalised (n wish she's keep being healthy)...n also she only takes medicines once if she had fever in 3 days i a row.coz she is so damn difficult to drink the panadol syrup even ubat ikut bontot pun xnak.yg selebihnya tawakal jek kalau dia demam n sesema (dgn harapan akan sembuh sendre,ni mak punya harapan)hahahaha. oh btw she starts speak 3 or 4words clearly when she was 1 year n 6mths. eg: mia nak mkn nasi. or kenapa air tu pink?(meaning kaler pink) by her age 1 year n 8 mths she can talks about anything!n ask me with 4W1H questions.huh jenuh gak kadang2 nk jawabnya.i mean she wants precise answer. Eg: mia 'mama beli buku ni kat mana?' so my answer can not be like 'kt kedai' or 'kt luar' coz she will not satisfied with my answer n she keeps asking me over n over again.so my answer will be 'kat sunway' 'kt klcc' or 'kt midvalley' uwaaaa sbb tu jekla yg dia tau n paham tpt2 shopping.pastu baru diam! isk2 *gelengkepala*

one thing about her character now is she likes to nursing a baby doll.she calls the barbie Qaisara (the name given by her nenek) so basically she will do milk in a bottle for her 'adik',dandan rambut qaisara.she also even selimutkan qaisara n read her story book.OMG.nak adikkah? huhu she also like to push baby stroller n put qaisara in it.hurmmm..

if u notice, kids will always imitate adults attitude or words whether u realized or not that u have been imitated! Eg: if u iron clothes she also wants to do just the same + siap dgn spray ke baju sebelum iron.bila masak kt dapur sibuk gak nak masak.so i bought this kitchen set for her to cook! grrrr

one thing that i feel she grows up pretty fast is when she chooses what she wants to wear in everyday clothes.kalau nampak aritu mcm kaler x matching or buruk jgn salahkan maknya tau!hehe so this green knitting cardigan she tried herself at the kids store.urghhh so i have to buy coz dia dh sibuk guling2 on the floor.

before guling kene posing n happy dulu :P

n i noticed she is quite strong girl in her age.yes i admit it!compared me when i was small.if she knocked down something or fall she didn't cry in fact she acts like nothing happen. *good girl* muahahhaha maybe sbb dh dilatih jatuh dari katil when she was 6 mths old! *sorry mia!* :(

n her best friend is her cousin Mariam even though they will quarrel if they meet.hehe

ok so thats all for now n im waiting to send her to playschool as she is 3 yrs old by this year..erkkkk

SHIT happens everywhere!

2012-01-10T20:52:00.005+08:00

well..today is a bad day n of course its not a bad life. in our daily routine job,we are facing problems from our clients,customers or patients.even though its not our fault,but customer's always right (leh pakai lg ke ayat ni di zaman kala ni?) hurmm..n of course we are thought by our management to apologize rather than argue to make the situation better.but it goes vice versa for me..if its not my fault i will explain to them from a to z..but in the end i will say 'im sorry' biasalah anak nombor 2 mmg xnak kalah punya!dia jek yg betul.kekekeke n tomorrow its like gonna be a big judgment day for us to answer all the doubts n our wrongs doings.somehow I'm not scared at all coz maybe..

1) i know it's not my fault (n i have evidence)

2) all past experiences made me stronger n more calm

3) its not the end of the world

4) i know many people out there face more challenging problem than i am

5) i know i have to be patient in handling patients who cannot be patient at all! :p

6) i have to be more thankful coz i think other people may be more stressful working in bank or business lines.

:))

step forward.

2012-01-07T19:50:00.003+08:00

p/s: its easier SAID than DONE!!

New Year 2012

2012-01-01T08:26:00.001+08:00

2012 resolution

2011-12-30T22:51:00.000+08:00

my 2012 resolution is to gain more...

coz this will make all the other ones a whole lot easier..

3rd Anniversary

2011-12-30T21:58:00.002+08:00

tomorrow gonna be my blog's 3rd anniversary (31st Dec 2011).yey! happy bday in advance.well it has been ups n downs throughout this year..all the written here are based on my real experiences.but most of them through my observation,my thoughts,what i had seen n learned from other people n surroundings..so i will keep on blogging coz 

p/s: dont forget to grab 31% discount on baskin robin tomorrow!

goodbye 2011

2011-12-23T22:40:00.003+08:00

I guess....

2011-12-20T23:57:00.004+08:00

Medical certificate

2011-12-20T23:01:00.002+08:00

i have noticed people like to get MC on monday coz maybe they are still in their monday blues?or they just wanna extend their weekend rest?somehow sometimes people have their own intention to get MC.some of them just dislike to go to work coz wanna have rest at home.some of them would like MC to go for vacation oversea..some of them just want MC to meet up their scandal during working days.huh.some of them need MC to claim insurance.some of them just wanna have rest n loved being surrounded with pretty nurses.hurmm..n last but not least some of them just wanna get sympathy from their spouse.huh This world is MAD.

deactivate?

2011-12-18T22:52:00.000+08:00

frankly speaking my life was sooo pretty plain simple without facebook..i was forced to create fb by my younger sister n the account exists in late 2009.so i have been wondering to deactivate the account coz i just want my simple life back then which apparently i was a low profile person ..but i just can't!coz this is the only way i can interact with old friends,cousins n families..since i am labelled to be anti social so i guess this is the only way for me to communicate..besides that i found it useful coz besides connecting with friends,i also connect myself to the outside world by current news,gossips n motivation that i get so fast within seconds!if i did not have fb, i wont get the stuffs so fast which i have to buy newspapers or magazines..i wonder if my life without fb..my life is all about job,family n few friends to contact.seriously like only few people i contact from 100 people in my phonebook.

p/s: if i die...plezz remove me from ur friends list.TQ

Anti Social?

2011-12-16T21:15:00.004+08:00

to be honest im not a loud person or talkative person.so people rather judge me to be quiet or usually call me anti social or in malay word is sombong.ok i dun mind at all with that coz i used to be judge that way since high school.coz maybe my face look so stern?or fierce maybe? one more time who cares??hehe since i moved to this new housing area,so last month we had majlis suaikenal.so basically when they met up in the party,they get to know each other n chit chatting like they know among themselves like ages!hehe n guess what i did at that moment?YES.you are correct.i was just sitting alone at one corner n waited for people to approach me.n yes ur right again nobody approach me becoz they just scared i guess,even though i had put a fake smile from ear to ear.muahahhahaha but at least my nearest neighbour sat beside me.n again i end up with only a friend!hehe

same thing goes at my office.people from other department talked about me that i used to sit alone at cafe,or go to shop in the building alone.helloooo who cares again?nak gi berak pun kene temankah?heheheh

but this so called anti social thingy really hurts me in my early marriage years..coz hubby's officemate said that im not that ramah-tamah.hellooo actually i already chit chat quite much with them.wat do u expect me to ask u hows ur husband?or hows ur sedara mara?ko ade berapa ekar tanah ?u know sometimes its just too much n i get enough of that!!

so now i dun mind if people still talk about this behind my back.coz im used to n i dont bother at all!but i tell u once u approach me i can be ur good friends :)

So.....

Lessons Learned.

2011-12-15T09:50:00.005+08:00

i have learned that:

people forget what u said,or did,but people won't forget what u made them feel....

people who fall in love will do crazy things in their life...

sometimes people with the worst past can create the best future...

we can't be greedy to get 2 things at 1 time to be happy....

no matter how many inspirational quotes u read,or motivational books u read,in the end its all about u,yourself that have to change...

you cannot direct the wind,but u can adjust the sail....

T.R.U.S.T

2011-12-09T20:10:00.003+08:00

house project

2011-12-08T21:31:00.003+08:00

project: store room

DIY shelves.

tinggal nak label each storage :)

Ombak rindu

2011-12-04T16:40:00.002+08:00

everybody talking about ombak rindu the movie.well..actually the novel was the first series of alaf 21 production that i read..so cheerss jgn jeles kalau nk cari novel ni time skrg mmg dh abesla.hehe hurmm i wonder whether the movie is as good as the novel?

SOMETIMES

2011-12-02T18:16:00.005+08:00

sometimes love just ain't enough...

sometimes letting go makes u stronger than holding on..

sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead...

sometimes words just can't describe how u feel...

thousand years

2011-12-02T18:02:00.001+08:00

i have died everyday waiting for you...darling don't be afraid i have loved u for a thousand years...i'll love u for a thousand more...

Touched Quotes.

2011-11-26T19:33:00.002+08:00

No matter how many quotes u read,song lyrics u hear,or how much u write ur heart out,sometimes words just can't describe how u feel...

The gifts.

2011-11-24T08:04:00.003+08:00

2 days ago i received gift from my Chinese patient..i was so surprised coz i rarely received any gifts from Chinese patients.what makes us in common is we are moms!hehe i want to tell u the story behind the gifts.ok frankly speaking i am the person who is easily influenced by other people's attitude whether its good or bad.hehe n i am easily fascinated and admire people who succeed in their life whether it could be in their career,marriage or education.so this mother of 4 daughters really succeed in her parenting.first she is only a housewife!she never graduated in any university n yet she can raised,educate all her children to the optimum level.her first daughter just graduated from Australia uni,second still studying there also,3rd just finished her form 4 and soon going to do a level there also following her elder sisters n the last one just finished her UPSR n got 7as! coz she took mandarin subjects.ok then i wonder how she able to raise her children so damn well n i fell there was no difficulties throughout the journey n it seems all went PERFECTLY!jeles ok?at least in a family kalau org melayu mesti sorang tu drop out la,xpandai sgtla or xmasuk uni la.huh tensen pun ade dgr makcik ni cite.so basically this what she told me:

- she sent all her children to Chinese school since primary.this is becoz she wants to train their children to be discipline.she told me the school really gives u homework to do every day compared to sekolah biasa yg kekadang mesti blk uma xde keje sekolah.n furthermore they have to learn mandarin words.u know yg tulisan cina byk characters tu.she said they really have to study how to write n memorize the words everyday!if u dont know the words then u fail.

-then this mother taught her children to do puzzles since small.thats y she gave me the puzzles.to make u expert in maths.she said she will bring puzzles,books if go to eat outside.meaning while waiting the food she teach them puzzles n games instead of making noise at the dining table.and as far as i remember everywhere i go whether to malls or eatery outlets mesti ade depa bwk books kasi anak baca at one corner.u can check urself out!

-and during weekend she send her children to learn music n go to centre where u can learn maths at higher level compared to what being taught at school.huh aku rase kalau org melayu dh mengeluh dahla sekolah smpai ptg pastu weekend kene belajar gak.n what makes me impressed is she finished al the music sylabus n the maths program till highest level.kalau kita mesti memberontak kt mak ckp mlasalah,penatla.

-n i really admire this women coz basically she is the one who sacrificed a lot in educating her children dgn tiada rase mengeluh pun!her husband just cari duit jek.kalau org melayu mesti dok pikir laki depa akan kawen lain lah..akan tinggalkan bini lah blah2 la.n this women really seems not worry that part much but really worried about thier children's education.huh!stress aku tulis ni.hehe

-besides that she taught me to do savings from now. this part im really impressed.she saves a lot!i wonder how she can send her children to oversea with their own money since they all are not applicable to get loan from govermnet n all this onher own money!baju anak2 sumenya share2 n turunkan ke anak number 2 n 3.seingat aku dulu mesti aku marah kalau pakai baju kakak.hehe but her children didnt complain that much coz she taguht them to share in lifes.she also taught me to share books.she said her friends or cousins share school text books if they not use anymore.n they dont mind to get buku bantuan at school.i think this way really can save a lot of money!n she asked me to open education savings account for mia.she really stressed me to save from NOW!n look at her dressing really simple coz i think she must saved a lot!n again im impressed!!if u noticed kita jek yg nak lawa2 ,depa xkesah pun tu sume yg penting anak2 pandai.oh how am gonna do that?hehe

basically i really respect their culture coz they really make education as number 1 priority.n guess wat all the gifts above actually not the new one.the gifts belongs to her daughters.hehe see ive told u she teach me to share n the stuffs really in good condition n i bet the took care the stuffs so damn well!n at the back of the note,she wrote 'do call me this is for ur help' hehe she really wants to help me in parenting!cheers :D

The past.

2011-11-16T23:15:00.003+08:00

Don't cry over the past because...

its done n its unchangeable...
it may ruin ur happiness in your future....
something better waiting for u...
everything happens for a reason...
the past is just a story n it has no power over u...
it shaped who we are today...

Really meh?

2011-11-16T22:45:00.002+08:00

since every now n then I've been surrounded with IT savvy people (those with IT gadgets + cool stuffs) so i think i wanna share my feelings coz im not IT nerd or IT aware or the-people-that-have-to-grab-latest-apple products.hehe so all this while Ive been updating my status in fb through nokia E71 using the kredits.kredits here means the money that been charged to my bill account.i dunno y i did not buy bb or ifon to surf webs.maybe im just too busy to think to buy the new one.or maybe im too lazy to go to IT store (remind u olls that im not IT nerds) or maybe i think buying the new one which maybe costs rm1500 may become more expensive compared to that i have to pay rm400 in a month for browsing the webs using E71.like seriously DUUHHHHH am i rite?but i just dunno how.really do not BOTHER at all even actually the bill reached about 1k per month.huh apakah??so now the awareness strike me lately so basically waiting the latest iPhone to be released.n fyi i also dun mind if i dun have any laptop or ipad n so on.as far as i remember i had laptop acer zaman thn 2000 yg dh rosak.n that was the last time i have my own.n after years no laptop to do assignments.n now thanx to this PC.hehe in other note i also dun have proper camera.all i have only sony pink which i bought in 2004.oh nooo siannya aku.n for the sake of everyone seems to have DsLR so i better grab one (itupun kalau aku ade mood nk belek2 kt kedai)hehehe

FATE?

2011-11-08T23:40:00.003+08:00

Is it fate or love?or fated to love u?sometimes i wonder y some people difficult to find partner in their life until old..some people may have 2 or more to be chased n to get...some people married n still have somebody else like them..i wonder how when people said 'jodoh yg baik utk org yg baik' does that mean the bad people have to marry with the bad ones?then how they themselves gonna improve their life together?somehow id rather think if one good person marry with the bad one..then it will balance n call it as fate?so confusing n i know i should stop thinking these nonsense!bye!

im BLESSED :)

2011-11-04T22:41:00.005+08:00

SELAMAT HARI RAYA KORBAN..lusa saya akan sambut di rumah sedara di melaka (in laws) oh talking about in laws..im very thankful n fortunate to have in laws who are very sporting,supportive,helpful n fun.dlm pada masa yg sama ramai yg di luar sana selalu cite pasal ketidakpuasan hati dgn keluarga mertua ..dan tanggapan itu salah coz i believe ramai lg yg hidup aman dgn in laws family..in fact we are like the origin family..anyway i just wanna share the behaviour n attitude of my mother in law which i think she is just like my own mother n saya rase apa saja yg dia buat lebih daripada my own mother..but of course my mama still the best :) what i have learned from her:

- sentiasa merapatkan silaturahim coz utk pjg umur kena rapatkan silaturahim esp dgn sedara2..n im learning this coz im not the type of person yg social sgt utk beramah mesra dgn org..so wat i did was try to attend any wedding invitations xkirala yg rapat atau kwn kepada kwn ke..n visit org sakit even sedara kpd sedara ke..hehe

- dia seorg yg mementingkan tarikh2 keramat.maksudnya harijadi,anniversary,konvo day.mesti ada hadiah n mkn2.sesiapa yg konvo mesti dia buatkan a bouquet of flowers on her own..n i think its a good example for my family coz will bond the loving relationship among the family members.

- she's willing to take care my daughter since she was 3mths coz damia used to cry a lot.n i bet i will take care of my grandchildren in the future.hehe

-she also take care of me during confinement period.she is there with me n the baby..in fact she cooked all the pantang food n also urut aku..n i think my own mother wont do like that..

-dia seorg yg sanggup buat ape saja utk org lain x kira dari segi wang,masa n tenaga..when she is sick she still cook n serve her husband to eat. i think i cannot do just like her!

- dia seorg mementingkan n mengutamakan suami dlm semua hal.dlm hal ni aku kalah n surrender.even she is sick,still cook for her husband,serve him first,check him if hes being left out if in a goup of people..betapa taatnya dia pada suami..n its hard for me to do so..

all i can say is ...SYUKUR

ironic?

2011-11-03T23:48:00.000+08:00

~~feels like to be single again~~

blah blah blah

2011-11-03T23:01:00.004+08:00

kim kardashian has divorced after married for 3 months.i am not shocked at all coz their lifestyle used to be that way.. i think some people was born to be single..yes only stay to be single can make their life more meaningful.so cheers to single ladies out there.

in other note..i believe marriage is an institutional life.u cannot married today n leave ur spouse the other day..bak kata pakar motivasi kita yg kene sesuaikan diri dgn perkahwinan itu bukan perkahwinan tu yg kene ikut selera kita..hurmm..n aku yakin pasangan yg kekal hingga akhir hayat ialah org yg beriman.seriusly shit.this is nothing but serius shit.IMAN.thats y sebelum kawin kene mempertingkatkan iman bukan kemahiran memasak ye kawan2..heheh n i really highly respect those married couple..dan sesungguhnya untuk mendapat keredhaan Allah adalah dgn mentaati suaminya.seriuss dowhhh agak2 boleh buat x? as the saying goes 'if u want to get annoyed for the rest of ur life,then get married!!' muahahahhaah

nothing :(

2011-11-03T22:49:00.000+08:00

XES education

2011-10-30T22:04:00.002+08:00

i recalled to talk about sex education to be put in school syllabus.this is is to teach about school children their private parts and how sex happens.i was so shocked when the 9yrs old girl got pregnant n she even didn't know how it happens.OMG.wat had happened to her?as for me my childhood life fulls with fun,friends,games n toys n i was not even think of sex that time.GOSHHH in my opinion i dun think its appropriate to have this sort of syllabus coz we have religious studies provided as one of school subject which i believed it covers this part of story.

in other notes,the government had create the obedient wives club where the wives have to treat their husband as if they are prostitute.duhhhh i dun think its appropriate in this manner of subject coz marriage life is not just about sex.many factors also play important roles in strengthen the love in marriage life.no doubt that sex is very important in marriage life coz it is humans nature to be loved n beloved but wats more important is the marriage itself is based on syariat islam.in this case for example,Arnold Schwarzenegger divorced with his wife after been married for 25yrs after discovering his affair with their housekeeper. can't u all imagine after been living for 25yrs?OMG its not just a number its a big number indeed! yesss no doubt sex satisfaction really important in a relationship but if we are muslim,we won't do that rite?

so do u wanna know when married men may stray ...?

when...

- he reaches 30
-he's going serious stress or loses his job
-he reaches 40
-he realises some younger girls are attracted to mature man
-your children start bringing home pretty young female friends
-Ur children all leave home
-he reaches 50
-he retires
-you are pregnant

(taken from women's weekly)

as for me the above reasons are some true based on my experiences :)

JEALOUS VS CURIOUS

2011-10-30T09:07:00.003+08:00

jealousy is important in relationship.yes it is indeed.becoz it shows how much we care n alert with someone u love..but over-the-top-jealousy can ruin ur happiness in ur life.sometimes u tend to  rumble with yourself becoz someone is crazy over u.i wrote 'crazy' becoz they are more to psychology problem.in other way,curious also important in a relationship especially in marriage life.but dun worry coz women tend to have more senses if the husband cheated u.hikhik. but wat happen if ur partner is NOT jealous at all??do u feel  lonely?or not worth appreciated?yes i admit that he is not kind of jealous at all.but i use the trust he gives to me wisely.but in other way round..until when u can stand this feeling?it is true indeed 'LIVE to EXPRESS,not to IMPRESS'. sometimes u may feel if the partner does not jealous at all,u will do something to make him jealous to get that reaction n feeling.OMG how weird this life could be?? :PP

konvo

2011-10-23T23:57:00.003+08:00

baru nk update cite pasal my konvo..yes although its bachelor with honours but its still though n with all the way journey of bittersweet n nice taste of study..cabaran2nya ialah:

- masa bulan pose buat assignment till late nite n wake up at 4am to cont.pastu sahur.coz got no time bila seharian bekerja.

- kene slipped disc attack n got MC for 1 week.yes all these melambatkan proses menghantar asignment n boleh melambatkan konvo on time.n i forced myself to sit n study n the pain really painful in the ass n burning the spine.tp ku gagahkan jua diri ini.its true indeed HEALTH is WEALTH.

- mase pregnant kan mia..have to do lotss of reading n computer work.

- pas pantang 2weeks trus sit on the chair n buat tesis utk kejar dateline!

n i tell u its nice to futher study to upmost level!pffftttt

Adele - Someone Like You

2011-10-17T00:18:00.001+08:00

' i still can imagine myself in 40 n still looking for him..n it's still on my mind'

sometimes it's not the song that make you emotional,it's the people and things that come to ur mind when you hear it...*tired of love songs*

ADELE the best!!

at this point of life...

2011-10-12T22:23:00.003+08:00

.... i feel education really important in ur life.no doubt.but whats more important to survive in this life is living skills.career n job wise also crucial to guarantee happy life for a lifetime.it doesnt work to tell school students 'belajar rajin2 utk mencapai cita2' wtf?i wont tell my kid this way.trust me they dun even have real dream job to be.huh.

... i feel confused whenn people said 'jgn fikir yg kita akan bahagia dgn apa yg kita x miliki skrg' does that mean we cant try or take risks for better future?i wonder how this philosophy really works.hurmm..coz i want to change my job prospect! n of course im scared to lose for wat i had now.OMG help me.pftttttt

...i feel every marriage life has the same story.i wonder how people easily tell thier misery about marriage life to me.i dun need to hear that coz i have my own too.cerita command yg dengar,laki suka main perempuan,laki kawen 3 n duduk 1 rumah.wow!yg ni aku terkejut coz she told me herself,n plg normal n biasa suami xtlg isteri buat kerja2 rumah.its ok to be normal in that way.huh but 1 dlm 10 ada suami yg rajin.how now?huaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa verangan jeklaaa

...i dun want n wish not to have another kid.i dunno.maybe im scared to raise them 'alone'.yes i tell u its more to mother's burden to raise them.n i admit that im not strong enough.anyway quality is more important than quantity.hehe btw feel weird those who have 5 kids or more.she is must be super mom.n im not!!-sorry-

...i feel every person in this world has the same life,same routine to do n whats make the difference is the character n attitude each person.

...i like to do self-reflection of me in the past n for another 10yrs to come..life is too short to wake up with regrets.i feel it does not matter where u start but where n how u end up this life in a good n happy ending.am i right?

...yes i know im thinking too muchhhh n starting over is aint an easy job!!

:(

2011-10-12T00:36:00.000+08:00

;))

2011-10-09T23:17:00.003+08:00

we just had lunch at restoran muhibbah sg.penchala.

the most unanswered why..

2011-10-09T22:58:00.002+08:00

.what sad about love, when u know others no hope for u being 2gether, but yet u still pray to make it work..its when ur mind says let go..but ur heart says hold on..and no matter how hard u try to forget everything, but u just cant..coz u still love them..dont know y?..its not how happy we are when with them..but how sad we are without them..yes,we may ...

*adapted from friend's notes*

muhasabah diri..

2011-10-06T23:43:00.003+08:00

Petanda penyakit rohani termasuklah:

1. Malas beribadah,

2. Malas bekerja

3. Tumpul daya fikiran

4. Kurang peka ttg kesusahan org lain

5. Gelisah n risau

6. Liar terhadap kebenaran

7. Sering bersangka buruk

8. Suka mengadu domba

9. Suka isteri atau tunang org

10. Malas atau lupa berdoa

11. Tak rasa bersalah bila buat dosa

12. Sukar utk buat kebaikan.

Semua masalah d dunia bermula dari penyakit rohani.

Di antara cara nak rawat SAKIT ROHANI ialah:

1.Jaga solat 5 waktu

2. Solat taubat n istighfar 70X sehari

3.Qada' solat yg tertinggal

4.Baca Quran

5.Maafkan org n mohon maaf

6.Cari ilmu berterusan n cari guru yg mursyid

7. Berkwn dgn org2 +ve

8. Sedekah kpd yg memerlukan

9.Beri binatang makan

10. Beri khidmat kpd yg perlu bantuan

11. Cuci pinggan, tandas, dsbnya

12.Kekalkan wudu'

13. Puasa sunat

14. Sentiasa ingat mati

15. Hidupkan sunnah harian

16. Seru org ke arah kebaikan

17. Tunaikan hj n umrah

I LOVE YOU

2011-10-05T19:02:00.002+08:00

these 3 magical words sound simple.but i tell u it really can change ur lifetime.so do say it today to ur love ones.

stagnant life

2011-10-04T22:51:00.003+08:00

i do feel now my life in a stagnant lane.i do feel when life becomes stagnant in every way,how do u get it unstuck?i know being a muslim,i need to be better every day onwards. but anyhow it comes soo daily routine n stagnant.i do feel i want to change my job prospect -to be involved in football team.somehow people's interest can change from time to time.n suddenly im so obsessed with football.dunno y..maybe i treat a lot of footballers at my dept.hurmm wat else?n for the first time i worked on sunday which i havent do for the past 4yrs.huh.this is all to unblog my stagnant life!n now i will hit the gym after office hours n i dun feel its a burden coz to get rid of the feelings.oh how damn akward.n i do also feel the life is a circle of life its just about the cycle of life.yes i do feel life is too short to wake up in the morning n feel regrets.oh God please save me..n i read in a book they said if u want to be matured ,u have to add 10yrs from ur current age.hurmm sounds logic though..yess i really feel this life is on a wheel..in another years u have to send n fetch ur children to school..then when they enter university i will become alone at home..then they get married,i have to babysit my grandchildren..then the last is to die.yes this life is damn short..probably estimated i able to live like for another 30-40yrs more.n guess wat its damn short i tell u!

gentle reminder for myself..

KAYA sebelum MISKIN,
SIHAT sebelum SAKIT,
MUDA sebelum TUA,
LAPANG sebelum SEMPIT,
HIDUP sebelum MATI.

W.O.R.D.S

2011-10-04T22:20:00.002+08:00

i really miss blogging coz its unblog my feelings...its all about words.i really do need words to express my feelings.i used to express my feelings on papers (last time) n now i express it through my blog.thats y i dun mind if there's nobody read my blog coz i need those words to feel relief n wash away all my fears,anger n sadness n vice versa..so people jom muntah baca my blog ;)) TQ

A.D.E.L.E

2011-10-04T19:53:00.001+08:00

yey!! last week i bought adele cd.her songs superb!she is just 23 n born in england.luckily she is not like rihanna or ketty pery coz im tired those sorts of songs in the music industry.oh frankly speaking i never buy original cd if i like the whole songs in the album.the first cd was linkin park back in 2001.HAHA! so better grab one now!

SABAR ITU INDAH.

2011-10-04T18:52:00.006+08:00

sabar itu indah...sabar itu nikmat...

sebenarnya dok sabar selama 4bln n today i united with my unifi at home!woot2! that means aku leh lepaskan gian berblogging..okay frends...ready to rumble with my rumblings n nonsense!check it out.peaceeeee

UPDATES UWAAAA!!!

2011-08-17T23:30:00.002+08:00

ok im hardly breathing without internet at home.berangan nk pasang unifi tapi coverage xde lg di kawasan rumah ku ituuu..mcm tuttt.so many things to be shared (padahal gian nk lepaskan perasaan rindu dendam berblogging!) urgghhh well so many things happened past few months.dgn gosip khairul fahmi putus tunang (akku mmg suke gosip) hinggalah ke saat hari konvokesyen minggu lepas di bulan puasa.erkk biasala mat salleh bukan paham bulan pose tu ape.hurrmm ape lagi ek? oh di bulan pose ni dh byk kali tertinggal sahur n patient pun makin berttambah ramai lagaknya.aku rase depa ni saje sakit coz malas nk keje kot.siap ada yg datang bawak surat referral sakit tahun december 2010.apakah maksudnya itu??saje nk ngelak keje la tuuu.hehe anyway bos lah yg plg happy!kuli?terseksa.hehe oh btw lupa nk habaq mai..aku sedang berblogging di internet cybercafe wokeh di mlm2 ramadhan.sbb gian nk menaip perasaan ni so byklah korang akan dengar my rumbling.hehehe

oh so hows ur raya preparation?i still remembered in early years of our marriage.sume org sibuk buat persiapan raya,kami berdua mogok xnak blk mana2 kampung.so just stay in pj.yg bestnya pagi raya xbuat rendang or any raya food pun.pagi2 lagi trus gi klcc tgk movie jln2.heaven beb!hehe tryla. oh btw this year blk raya johor.yey!

wish u all salam ramadhan n salam aidilfitri in advance (sbb xtau lg bile lg leh blogging!) huhu

2011-06-09T23:34:00.000+08:00

kiss my ass!

2011-06-09T22:05:00.004+08:00

lately I've been surrounded by lots of wives who desperately talk about their marriage life in fb.fuyooo xtahan telinga ni dgr,sakit mata ni membacanya..ada yg wife baik,laki cari pasal n vice versa..things happen lah kan..nk buat mcmana..kalau x life not colourful!huhu bagus sgtla tu kalau colourful sgt.hehehe anyway i just wonder y in each relationship there must be betrayal?scandalous?uncertainty?cheating?n blah3 y can't they just do the right things??stress sorang2 plak dh.. but for me if we know each n every our responsibilities then all these stupid stuffs wont happen.seriously it's ok to feel sad,uncertainty,betrayed coz after all we are just human beings..but please dun let me stay there for too long.TQ :)

who would have known how bittersweet this would taste?

7th anniversary :)

2011-06-05T10:01:00.001+08:00

we have been married for 7yrs..n may it lasts forever..amiinnnn..

adam loves nur :)

2011-05-19T23:15:00.002+08:00

hhuaaa best tgk.aku sorang jek dok leleh ayak mata.heheh

full vs part time lover?

2011-05-17T20:27:00.001+08:00

i need full time lover...really need it...i beg u..please save me...lalalalala

Question Mark??

2011-05-16T17:38:00.003+08:00

WHAT IF?

shall we?

HOW COME?

will u?

DO U?

But then?

HAVE U?

aren't we?

IS IT?

what the?

HAVE I?

when is?

WHY it?

LOVE HURTS.OUUCHH!!

2011-05-14T20:33:00.001+08:00

Love can make u happy but after times it hurts..
huahuahua

syukran jazilan

2011-05-14T19:56:00.002+08:00

n be more grateful..BUT

HAHAHA

Happy Mama's Day :))

2011-05-08T00:46:00.004+08:00

mothers are closest to daughters when daughters become mothers.so true!! to be honest my mom become the first person to share my happiness,sadness n sorrow..n the best person to be with when we are sick is our mother!am i right? when i was had serious back pain attack i really need her by my side instead the husband.so weird!but its just came so natural..n mama is the first person to know that i was pregnant! double the weird :)

anyway..

i want to move out!!

2011-05-04T20:00:00.003+08:00

owwhh i really cant hardly wait to move out to new house.actually we can move out anytime from now..owhh aku dh x larat nk dukung mia yg seberat 12kg dari carpark yg jauh.kalau hujan plak,kene turun naik tangga amek keta sebanyak 52steps anak tangga (fuhh kira beb!!)

so..ini ialah hasil aku pack sorang2.ni baru 1 bilik.ada lagi 2 bilik + kitchen.uwaaaaaaaa

al fatihah..

2011-05-01T20:06:00.003+08:00

on 28th april i have lost my dearest aunty (cik su) after battling with ovarian cancer since 6 yrs ago.im sympathized with my mom coz she lost the best friend n only sister..she was very dedicated science teacher,devoted mother n nice aunty to us.may she rest in peace..

the last advice ciksu told me: 'ana,jaga khairul baik2' uwaaaa

alfatihah...

cervical cancer awareness

2011-05-01T19:43:00.001+08:00

calling the awareness of cervical cancer..

i have taken the first dose injection..how about u?

tears don't fall..

2011-04-14T23:51:00.001+08:00

not strong enough

2011-04-11T03:42:00.002+08:00

i think...i am not strong enough to be a mother of two children yet...or forever...

*forgive me mia*

World Health Day 7th april 2011

2011-04-10T18:22:00.004+08:00

ini booth saya :)

tagline booth Jamu Mak Dara.soooooooo typical malaysian!kalau laki dh mmg nk cari lain,xpayah pun guna alasan ni!

booth pinky POISE

feet reflexology

2011-04-10T18:11:00.003+08:00

for the first time in my life last week went to feet reflexology at carefour subang.sbb promotion tulis besar FEET REFLEXOLOGY $20 1/2 an hour.so apelagii nak try ahh.

suasana yg kelam..membuatkan jiwa menjadi malap..heheh

tapi rupanyaaa sakit nak mampuih diurutnya!now i know y patients told me makin sakit kalau buat traditional massage..i know they know the technique but the method should release the pain,not increase the pain.huhu aku punyela sket2 menjerit nasib baik xde org..hehehe teknik urutan dh bagus..tapi org urut tu guna bahagian tangan yg salah di bahagian kaki yg salah..contohnya guna knuckles at dorsum of feet..wohooo sakit ohh kalau guna thumb with deep pressure i can accept that!hurmm anyhow esoknya aku punye tendon archilles sakit n jln terhencut2.uwaaaaaaa

updates

2011-04-03T17:49:00.003+08:00

Selesa Beach Resort,Port Dickson

Team building 1st-3rd april

nice view..

mlm tu bos belanja pesta durian..yummyy

lots of activities..xsempat amek gambar..ada night walk(kene tutup mata), fear factor (pegang katak passing kt kwn2), raft building (kene berakit sejauh 70km!) penat tuu!!

1st batch of team building for the very 1st time since the hospital exists!!huh apakah??kesiannn

TEAM BUILDING??

2011-03-30T00:45:00.002+08:00

for the 1st time in my life this coming friday im going for team building which i was selected by the management.WTF?oh noooo i hate this kind of stufss surrounded with strangers,new environment..sleep n eat with new frends?im tired of making new frends!or just tired to build the relationship.n one thing for sure i bet myself that i will easily or sesuka ati depa nak select me to be wakil group atau wakil kene present something for the group.i just knew it!!cewahh perasan la plak..tapi tula hakikatnya seperti yg kucoretkan dlm entry2 yg lepas ..i feel to be invisible once i go there!!uwaaaa

littlecutie

2011-03-30T00:18:00.002+08:00

aritu first time in my life gi jusco bukit tinggi klang..punyela jakun sbb encik itu malas nk bwk saya jalan situ...tp pas ni pindah shah alam jadi tpt lepakla jawabnya..anyway i spotted this cute kiosk sells kids clothes..skrg beli baju mia sume yg murah2 jek xde maknanya beli yg mahal2 sbb mia cepat meninggi tp saiz x membesar huhu..so i guess this shop really sells at good affordable price + fesyennya lain dari yg lain..so i really like this kiosk!!can check out this website www.littlecutie.com.my

level 2 (opposite FOS)

rupanya2 kiosk ni baru perasan tadi ada kt mydin usj..dhlama rupanya kiosk ni ade..hurmmm

COINS

2011-03-29T23:11:00.004+08:00

mesti uma korang byk syiling kan??kita selalu anggap syiling x berguna n menyemak sana sini..kalau terselit celah sofa pun xkesah....sehinggalah atas lantai pun jalan menonong jek..buat xheran..nak2 lagi kalau nak cuci baju mmg xcek poket langsung..dan akhirnya bila nk sidai kain kecingggg jatuh atas lantai,baru nk kutip..tu pun letak kt tepi mesin basuh jek! heheh (sume di atas mcm perangai aku jek?) tapiii syiling sgt berguna ketika zaman bercinta dgn hubby dulu..punyela godek sana sini kt rumah..kalau ade 5sen siap kumpul byk2 tuko kt kedai ..so that can gayut kt public phone. (ni kes duit poket xcukup nk beli top up) heheh..

but now i really recall the situation n realized the coins really meaningful to me!!sbb nak exchange token main mainan mesin mia kt shopping malls!huhu

bersyukurlah..

2011-03-20T23:20:00.002+08:00

"Bersyukur dan berpuas hatilah dengan apa yang anda miliki sekarang.Jangan sekali-kali berfikir bahawa anda akan bergembira setelah memiliki perkara-perkara yang tidak anda miliki sekarang.."

LELAKI FEMINIS

2011-03-20T22:16:00.007+08:00

regarding my previous post about true love: 'is there any men out there that really loves a women ++ n x curang?' n to women out there here is the good news!! i came across an article about this type of men really exists on this earth! woot wooot!hehhe..so lets check out your partner..ada xciri2 yg dimaksudkan.

9 ciri lelaki Feminis dambaan wanita:

1) Rasa peduli

- mempunyai rasa peduli yg tinggi terhadap individu n keluarga yg terdekat.mereka ini dikatakan sebagai pendengar dan pemerhati yang baik.

2) Bahasa positif

-mereka lebih gemar gunakan bahasa yg baik yg mampu melembutkan hati org di sekelilingnya.

3) Berbudaya

golongan ini merupakan penyokong atau pelindung terhadap pasangannya,bukannya melakukan kekerasan terhadap org yg disayangi

4) Membebaskan

-lelaki feminis sering mengeluarkan aura kebebasan dan tidak menyempitkan pemikiran.sikap ini turut memberi pengaruh positif terhaadap pasangannya.

5) Toleransi

konflik antara pasangan dapat dielakkan dan ini beri keadilan terhadap pasangan lelaki atau perempuan

6) Pembahagian kerja domestik

dalam hal kerja di rumah,lelaki feminis adalah pembantu yg hebat!mereka tidak malu buat kerja rumah seperti bersih rumah atau cuci baju.

7) mengghairahkan

lelaki feminis kebiasaannya lebih bersikap sensitif terhadap aktiviti seksual pasangannya.mereka mementingkan orgasma pasangannya dlm setiap hubungan intim yg berlaku.supaya hubungan itu menjadi satu kenikmatan secara fizikal n psikik.

8) ambil tahu reproduksi wanita

-golongan ini amat mengambil berat ketika isteri hamil demi memelihara kandungan isteri.

9) antipoligami

-GOOD NEWS for women out there! lelaki feminis begitu menyanjung tinggi soal keadilan.mereka tidak dapat hidup dgn pasangan yg bergantian.mereka cukup hormat dlm perhubungan.jadi tidak hairanlah mereka menolak poligami.

okay..mesti korang rase aku ni rajin ala2 gila nk menaip bagai sume ni..tapi i just like to share with u guys..

i could not ask for more if i live with feminism man until old..

go green?

2011-03-20T20:34:00.007+08:00

as u all know every saturday is no plastic bag day in selangor.n infact the government really call us to support the go green by not use plastic bag especially when do shopping..but im wondering if u dun get the plastic bag..from where the hell u will get a plastic bag to throw ur rubbish?nak kene beli plastic sampah itam tu ke?so i think its still important to get the plastic bags as i dun buy the black plastic bags just to throw the rubbish.hoho and i will not hesitate to pay for 20cents for a plastic bag when do shopping if i dun have any at home!huhu

too lazy to exercise??

2011-03-20T20:20:00.003+08:00

every now n then people keep complaining they do not have time to do exercise.for me to do the basic n simple step is by starting at ur own house..i mean cleaning the house by urself!i think its not necessary to get a helper or maid to clean the house.. (ok no doubt by having them ur house may be in tip top condition!) but hey.. can't u all think when is the time for all of u to hit the gym or go playground in the evening with 3 kids or more?hmm may be once a week or once a month?hehehe so the best thing is just get off ur lazy bum ass n start clean the house.i bet the calories burn more than u work out on treadmills.heheh so utk para suami yg lain ( juga merujuk kepada yg berkenaan..ehem ehem) ringan2kanlah tulang anda utk membantu isteri membuat kerja rumah..bukan takat rumah akan jadi bersih..anda juga dpt bersenam n isteri jadi lebih sayang.PERCAYALAH!!

fly like a bird..

2011-03-17T23:48:00.002+08:00

all my life i've been good but now,I am thinking wat the hell?

all i want is to mess around and i really don't care about..

if u love me,if u hate me,u can't save me..coz love hurts whether its right or wrong..lalallala

so i better fly like a bird..

BOOKS

2011-03-14T21:59:00.001+08:00

CURRENT BOOKS OBSESSION:

AND....

hahaha how true is that??

SAFETY FIRST

2011-02-20T22:24:00.003+08:00

keselamatan di rumah juga amat penting selain di ofis..so kalau kt rumah benda yg paling saya takot:

1) pencuri

2) ular!

3) serangga atau binatang seumpamanya: cicak,tikus,lipas

so dekat my hometown,my parents put up this sliding window (mcm mosquito net) kt semua bilik.sebabnya masa dulu aku yg terjumpa ular kt tingkat atas uma.bayangkan mcmana boleh ular naik kt bilik tidur atas?sbb pokok kt rumah tu terlalu dekat dgn bumbung so i think the snake got through there..so i've been thinking to do the same at my new house!

ni plak gril yg dibuat kt tangga ke tingkat atas.kiranya sebagai penghalang daripada pencuri naik tingkat atas!so im gonna do just like this!sbb dulu ada gak pencuri naik atas curi barang..hmm..

oh ini plak gambar mia tgh happy men kt playground..skrg dh pandai tgk playground nk men jek kejenya!huaaa

baik baik sayang

2011-02-16T20:53:00.006+08:00

sometimes i feel wanna be loved..i mean deep loves..wanna be touched..i mean sensual touched..wanna be heard..i mean soul heard..wanna be seen..i mean look into my eyes..wanna be called sayang..i mean sayang sayang..

*sigh* and i really hope that your

**jom muntah!!**

working experience??

2011-02-16T19:56:00.005+08:00

ni nak habaq mai cite pasal keje plak okeh..setelah hampir 5thn keje at current workplace,i found that whenever there is elderly patient meaning they are from educated,wealth family,dato n datin..they always ask me 'dh bape lama keje dik?' kalau ade customer tanya kt ko mcm ni agak2 rase ape? mesti dlm ati rase 'asal?aku ni baru nampak mcm keje ke?aku ni nmpak budak2 ke?' nk jek aku jwb balik 'asal makcik?saya taula saya nampak muda,awet muda la katakan!!' geramm jekk dlm ati tu!huh. n actually i know what are thier meanings: they mean am i have enough experiences to treat them?wallahh wei..n x bole blah kalau patient CHA YA NUN ALIF.paham ke?heeeee ..walau sehebat mana sebaik mana service kita kt depa ni,tetap xdtg the next appointment.aku pun pelik ah.speaking dh abes berhabuk,service tiptop mcm hamba gile babeng..hurmm maybe depa ni nk bangsa depa treat kot?hurmm watevalah!! (lagik aku suke,x byk songeh!hehehe) owh btw rata2 patient yg selalu tanya berapa lama dh keje (mcm x caya sgt kt aku nih) tapi diaorg ni pun ada gak buat lawak mcm ni::

- saya pergi hospital kt penang la..mcm2 tpt la saya gi kt area penang tu..tapi diaorg sume xde buat mcm awak buat kt saya ni. (wokeh!ckp jekla aku buat bagus!!uwaaaaaaaa) lagik nk kasi clue2 siap x nak ngaku plak tuh!hampeh taik kucing! aku pun ape lagi tersengih kambeng dlm ati cilakak ko sebok tanya working experience aku byk2 kali konon!!

- kalau awak cuti,saya xnak la buat kt org lain..takot. (wokeh!ni ape maknanya??ckp jek la suka aku treat ko!!)hampeh punye olang!buat aku tensen bile ade org tenung kita tanya sengih2 bape lama keje ni dik?hurmm

kekadang aku terpk gak kalau aku tua adakah skill aku makin bagus?atau yg freshgrad tu mungkin ada yg bagus?kekadang rase nk muka ni nampak tua kerepot sket biar diaorg tu caya aku ni dh tua dlm 35+ maksudnya working experience aku byk.ceh!!bodohnya typical people's thinking!!so please

DON'T UNDERESTIMATE OTHER PEOPLES' ABILITY!!

family day @sunway pyramid

2011-02-14T17:32:00.003+08:00

first time attend family day.memandangkan buat kt sunway yg hanya depan uma,so joinla.. tema: 2gether gather gitu!!

first time mandi kolam!sian mia..n first time pijak pasir..muka takot2 n geli geleman

round2 wild life park di ptg2 panas buta.aduhh

saya sudah ngantuk n lapo mama!!

SYURGA CINTA

2011-02-14T16:57:00.003+08:00

Jodoh ada tiga jenis jodoh.

Jodoh dari Syaitan… berkenalan, berpegangan tangan, buat maksiat, mengandung lalu bernikah.

Jodoh dari Jin… berkenalan, bertepuk sebelah tangan, lalu dibomoh dan disihirkan sebelah pihak sampai tunduk mengikut kemahuan lalu bernikah.

Jodoh dari Allah… cinta berputik, masuk meminang dan langsung bernikah, itulah SYURGA CINTA.

CNY in BatuPahat

2011-02-07T21:16:00.003+08:00

jelingan mia mcm mama!hahaha

late nite at dataran BP

happy gile dpt belon tu..hurmmm

mia yg x reti dok diam..asik nk rampas kamera!

cheeky mia!

favourite skrg: pakai kasut mama!

favourite words: 'abaahhh bukak pintu ni!!nk ikott!!'

'we are not followers,we are leaders' --yes ur indeed!humppphh

Neighbourhood

2011-02-01T23:23:00.004+08:00

hoho

first thing first i have good news!we just got our new house keys last week..basically the house is like totally ours till old..no more elevator up and downstairs for the past 9yrs..huhu skrg nk naik kete,tet tet (tekan alarm keta) dh kt depan porch.nak buang sampah paling best!campak kt dustbin depan uma,very the heaven!! (sian aku) owhh btw the one that really bothers me in staying on landed house is the neighbours!read my lips: NEIGHBOURS! huhu...ive been living in apartment for past 9yrs..so basically the lives n attitude staying at apartment is we don't even bother who is our neighbour!!its like idup mati sendre kt uma tu,pi keje blk keje,thats all.paling x bole blah kalau ade jiran sesama bangsa dok tunggu lift pun x tego sape!! (owhh that means me!)hehehe so..now i will be staying in housing area whereby there are all folks of life..ada lawyer..ada keje gomen ade housewife n so on..n i tell u i never close to neighbours even at my hometown coz everytime jiran dtg uma,mesti suh kakak yg gi layan n so on..me?sembunyi kt bilik!hihih malas nk layan.so i might be thinking the precautions or steps to be taken to live harmony with neighbours.contohnya..

1) kalau jiran kasi rase makanan,patutkah aku membalas blk dgn makanan?coz aku dhla x reti masak!kasi KFC sudah..heheh

2) kalau jiran dtg saje nk borak2,patutkah aku ajak masuk uma atau borak kt gate jek?kalau masuk uma hidang teh o sudah!heheh

3) x leh bergosip lebih2 dgn jiran..i will be stay in the middle..takut lain plak citenya..sbb ati org lain2..

4) damia mesti nk men dgn anak jiran sebelah..so kene baik2 dgn anak org tu jugak..

5) mintak2 xdpt jiran yg kepochi setiap benda or pergerakan nk tau!huhu

6) kalau bole nak rahsiakan my personal life as much as possible coz im low profile,secretive n xnak org kepochi!!huhu

wish to have good freinds a.k.a neighbours who we can trust to share sorrow,happiness,loneliness, sads,n success like them in this desperate housewives series..yes im desperately desperate to be housewife!!huhu

Barbeque

2011-01-31T14:38:00.001+08:00

Pak anam tgh bbq

smoked lamb bbq,salads,coslaw,udang n sosej bbq

damia,the 4th generation.

taping course

2011-01-18T21:53:00.004+08:00

current feelings

2011-01-13T00:24:00.002+08:00

feels nothing at all!

Arwah Faizal Yusof

2011-01-02T19:24:00.003+08:00

AL-fatihah..

Faizal Yusof telah kembali ke ramatullah pada usianya 32thn disebabkan serangan jantung..actually i admired him soo much because he's handsome n talented kalau berlakon..plus his son Rayyan..so cute!may u rest in peace.Amiinn.

stressssssssss

2011-01-02T18:07:00.004+08:00

okaayy sume org boleh dikatakan ade gambar universal studio singapore di fb merekaa.stressnyaa...for ur info dh 2 tahun aku x gi holiday!!encik ituuu sgt bz mcm PM!xpee akan aku gi sorang2 kang!

ape lagii buat pasport cepat!!!!!heeeeeeeee

2011

2010-12-31T21:18:00.002+08:00

As the curtain falls on another eventful year,it is timely to refresh n self reflection of the past 12 months n hope for better beginnings on the coming year..the past year had its fair share of triumphs,sadness,trials n tribulations..may look for brighter future..n forget the past..let by gones be by gones!

new year resolutions?

new job? ---hopefully!

new house? --accomplished!

new baby? -- next 2 yrs!

happy 2nd annivesary!

2010-12-31T20:42:00.003+08:00

my blog already turns 2nd year old today!!yey!it marks the end of 2010...hope the next year will be blissful year for me..insyallah..

where is the love?

2010-12-31T20:14:00.003+08:00

Carilah cinta kita yang hilang. Insya-Allah kita akan temuinya semula cinta itu di tempat, suasana dan masa ketika kita mula-mula menemuinya dahulu. Bukankah kita bertemu kerana Allah? Bukankah yang menyatukan kita kalimah-Nya? Bukankah tempat termaktubnya lafaz akad dan nikah di rumah Allah? Kembalilah ke sana.....insya-ALLAH

Harimau Malaya WON!!

2010-12-30T23:05:00.002+08:00

last nite a big congrats for malaysian team won for suzuki cup defeats indon..YEY!n surprisingly i admired the goalkeeper instead of other players even the capten!hehehe yelaa sbb dia sorang jek aku tengok keje keras selamatkan bola!heheh

so the goalkeeper is Khairul Fahmi..

n surprisingly i add him on fb account..n found out his gf has blog!check this out!

jejariruncing.blogspot.com

not bad gak kan?

AFF Suzuki Cup 2010

2010-12-29T22:56:00.002+08:00

last sunday went to national stadium to watch finale MSIA VS INDON.never been to stadium watch live okayy??

dgn terasa terujanya buat bendera kt muka!yey!

trus beli jersey rm50

owhh mcm ni rupanya suasana kt stadium..hheheh

mamat tu stress Msia x goal lagik..sampai rambut tuko jadi kuning!

FINALLY!!CONGRATSSS!!

L.O.V.E

2010-12-28T23:58:00.006+08:00

i've been wondering is there any men outthere who has endless love such as..

ROMEO & JULIET

where they have to hide their love from the world because they know that their parents will not allow them to be together..

SHAH JEHAN & MUMTAZ MAHAL

Taj Mahal is a symbol of love and it is a true dedication to love and romance in the memory of his beloved wife,Mumtaz Mahal.

Jack & Rose in TITANIC ...

NOAH & ALLIE (THE NOTEBOOK)

both of them love each other inspite of obstacles in their relationship..but yet NOAH still loves Allie ..they grow old together eventhough Allie has dementia..until death do them apart..

** am i just day dreaming or the stories above are just FAIRYTALE??*

WHATEVER LIFE!!!!

2010-12-25T08:22:00.004+08:00

i think this post might be catchy to some of u..actually this issue really bothering me as a friend of mine keep posting her status in her fb about her marriage crisis..examples:

'hanya mampu memujuk hati untuk redha and terus bersabar.... '

'its not that i dont except fate... i'm trying, but i'm only human, its not as easy...May Allah forgive me and give me the strength... its too difficult, too painful.. '

'recovering but still its not that easy..... '

'is trying very very very hard.... '

'biar aku kenyang mkn hati jek... '

'rase segala usaha jadi sia-sia..tak ingin hidup lagi... '

'Allah takkan duga di luar kemampuan kite kan? Tapi sakit ni terlalu peritla...'

'I can forgive but the wound is too deep to forget...'

'betrayed to death! How cud! you fucking bitch! '

'i cant take it..its too painful! why? am i not nice enough? '

i think its not appropriate to post anything similar like this in fb..but it will make u feel relieve by telling people all our miseries!btw..i've been wondering y women always blame themselves if husband betrayed their wife??y women always ask themselves y am i not nice enough?BUT wat happen if wife betrayed the husband..the husband will think that his wife is the root cause of all problems in the family!in fact they will blame the other guy who had scandal with his wife!

to my friend..i really can feel u beb!!

psstt..y can't life be easier??y can't married status mean anything to u???y?

WATEVA LIFE!!

Seri Kasih

2010-12-23T22:56:00.003+08:00

just wanna share articles with u guys..those who plan to get married..those just married n those who had married..wish u all the best!!
bukan mudah utk kekal hingga hari ini..bukan mudah utk capai selama ini.. *emo plak..jom muntah!*

PENDEDAHAN Timbalan Ketua Pengarah (Dasar), Jabatan Kemajuan Islam Malaysia (Jakim), Othman Mustapha, menerusi kajian yang dibuat pada 2008, mendapati wujudnya potensi tinggi berlakunya perceraian dalam usia perkahwinan 10 tahun ke bawah.

Dalam kajian pada 2007 pula, Jakim mendapati 32.2 peratus perkahwinan untuk tempoh lima tahun pertama mengalami perceraian dan bagi tempoh enam hingga 10 tahun pula mendapati 27.7 peratus bercerai.

Ini bererti tempoh 10 tahun pertama adalah paling kritikal kerana 59.9 peratus pasangan berakhir dengan perceraian.

Berdasarkan rekod 2009, 135,136 perkahwinan didaftarkan manakala 27,116 kes perceraian pula direkodkan.

Di negara kita, Kementerian Pembangunan Wanita, Keluarga dan Masyarakat (KPWKM) diwujudkan bagi menjaga kebajikan wanita supaya tidak teraniaya, tertindas, ketinggalan dan seumpamanya.

Namun, melihat keadaan semasa di negara kita pada masa kini, mungkin tiba masanya kita memikirkan sebuah badan khas untuk membantu lelaki yang kelihatan semakin pudar keupayaan mereka.

Allah SWT menciptakan isi dunia ini berpasangan supaya mereka saling bekerjasama memakmurkan dunia sesuai dengan fitrah mereka.

Namun, jumlah wanita lebih ramai memenuhi institusi pengajian tinggi dan seterusnya semakin banyak menguasai jawatan dalam bidang pekerjaan.

Pendidikan dalam rumah tangga semakin terhakis, satu puncanya adalah apabila wanita semakin ramai diperlukan untuk keluar bekerja sedangkan lelaki pula gagal menampung keperluan membantu dalam pendidikan anak.

Dalam kata mudahnya, dunia pekerjaan kini memerlukan bantuan wanita untuk terus bergerak tetapi dunia rumah tangga memerlukan bantuan lelaki untuk terus harmoni.

Apabila wanita kelihatan berjaya menampung keperluan dunia pekerjaan, tentu kemampuannya mengurus isi rumah tangga menyusut, ketika itulah peranan lelaki diperlukan tapi sedikit malang apabila lelaki terus terkebelakang.

Di dunia kerjaya mereka menyusut, di dalam rumah tangga mereka sering gagal menampung ruang kosong ditinggalkan isteri yang bekerja.

Hasilnya pergolakan pasti berlaku, rumah tangga berantakan, anak pasti terkena impak negatif dan seterusnya mendasar di dalam jiwa mereka sehingga dewasa.

Lebih buruk jika impak itu merosak jiwanya dan menjadikan anak berkenaan sebagai pembuli di sekolah, 'virus' di universiti, sampah dalam masyarakat dan pencipta masalah dalam negara.

Allah SWT menyebut dalam surah Al-Nisa, ayat 43, bahawasanya: "Lelaki itu adalah ketua ke atas wanita disebabkan kerana kurniaan yang diberikan kepada mereka dan disebabkan nafkah yang mereka berikan."

Jelas daripada ayat di atas, Allah melantik lelaki selaku ketua dan pemutus keputusan di dalam sesebuah rumah tangga berdasarkan dua sebab utama iaitu, kelebihan fizikal mereka dan, tanggungjawab mereka selaku pencari nafkah untuk keluarga.

Nescaya, kalau kedua-dua itu tidak disempurnakan dengan baik, pasti masalah akan berputik satu demi satu, ketidakpuasan hati akan menjelma hari demi hari, kehidupan akan berubah kepada seribu satu macam jenis masalah hingga berakhir dengan perceraian dan anak bermasalah.

Kerana itu keharmonian keluarga sangat penting dalam Islam dan Rasulullah SAW mengatakan, krisis dalam keluarga boleh 'menghakis' agama kerana ia punca kepada masalah lebih besar dalam masyarakat.

Rasulullah SAW bersabda: "Wahai sahabatku, mahukah kamu aku khabarkan satu amalan yang lebih besar fadilatnya berbanding puasa (sunat), sedekah (sunat) dan solat (sunat)?" Maka Abu Darda' menjawab: "Ya, Rasulullah."

Baginda membalas: "Itulah mendamaikan perbalahan dalam keluarga dan masyarakat." (Riwayat Al-Tirmidhi Abu Daud)

Rasulullah turut menyatakan bahawasanya: "Kerosakan dalam hubungan rumah tangga, kaum kerabat dan organisasi masyarakat akan menghakis (ketaatan dalam agama)." (Riwayat Ahmad dan Tirmidhi: Hadis Hasan)

Apabila wanita sudah bekerja dan berpendapatan sendiri, mereka tiada lagi punyai masalah untuk bercerai, hasilnya berdasarkan kajian, 'trend' perceraian bagi tempoh 1998-2002 menunjukkan hampir 70 peratus kes perceraian di Kelantan, Johor dan Terengganu dipohon oleh wanita (isteri).

Di beberapa negeri lain pula menyaksikan lebih 50 peratus wanita sebagai plaintif dalam kes perceraian.

Allah Maha Mengetahui wanita dan emosinya, ia satu perkara fitrah, justeru, kuasa cerai diberikan kepada suami.

Namun, isteri masih mempunyai kuasa untuk memohon melalui mahkamah apabila mereka benar-benar mempunyai kes dan sebab yang utuh di sisi syarak.

Fakta yang diberikan di atas menyokongnya, ia juga sekali gus menunjukkan kegagalan lelaki.

Artikel ini bukan bertujuan menyalahkan sesiapa, cuma mengajak kita berfikir sejenak kepada kelemahan lelaki dalam memainkan peranannya yang dianugerahkan oleh Allah, iaitu sebagai ketua keluarga.

Ia adalah satu tugas dan amanah yang datang dengan tanggungjawab dan peranan.

Tanggungjawab sebesar itu memerlukan ilmu dan kredibiliti secukupnya untuk bertindak selaku pemutus keputusan di dalam rumah tangga.

Keputusan dibuat pula mestilah rasional dan boleh diterima oleh ahli rumah, khususnya isteri, sama seperti sifat seorang hakim di dalam mahkamah, selain hakim, peguam bela dan pendakwa juga pakar di dalam bidang undang-undang, namun ia perlukan seorang pemutus keputusan.

Itulah sebaik-baik cara yang Allah SWT ajarkan untuk manusia, mereka perlukan pemimpin yang tidak mudah terpengaruh dengan emosi, tetapi lebih tumpu kepada rasional dalam membuat keputusan.

Berdasarkan ayat surah al-Nisa tadi, Allah melantik lelaki dan Allah Maha Mengetahui setiap kelemahan dan kelebihan makhluk yang diciptakan-Nya.

Hari ini, dengan segala kecukupan peralatan dan fizikal yang ada pada lelaki, semakin ramai menyalahgunakan kemudahan fizikal.

Kelebihan digunakan untuk menjadi penjenayah tegar, tenaga fizikal digunakan untuk 'merempit' dan menunjuk kekuatan dengan bergaduh dan tidak ketinggalan juga sebahagiannya diguna untuk mendera anak, isteri dan wanita lain.

Minda logik dan kurang emosi yang dianugerahkan Allah SWT digunakan untuk 'menjustifikasikan' segala kelalaian, menghiburkan diri apabila ditimpa kegagalan, padahal tiada usaha secukupnya dilaksanakan.

Akhirnya, semakin ramai lelaki gagal menggalas tugas ketua keluarga lantaran mendorongnya untuk terus mendesak isteri mengambil alih sebahagian tugasannya yang akhirnya menjadi punca kepada 'rumahku nerakaku'.

Mungkin dengan sebab itu, kita kini memerlukan satu agensi khusus untuk melindungi lelaki sebagaimana peranan KPWKM yang melindungi wanita.

Kita sedar tabiat lelaki tidak suka dinasihati kecuali mereka yang datang meminta, tidak seperti wanita yang mudah menerima nasihat.

Justeru, adakah jika kementerian seperti ini diwujudkan, ia boleh mengubah situasi buruk yang melanda?

Apapun, pemimpin negara dan semua pihak berkuasa memerlukan kaedah dan strategi lebih jelas dan berkesan bagaimana untuk kembali memperkasakan lelaki daripada aspek iman, ilmu, jiwa dan minda supaya mereka kembali menjalankan tanggungjawab dan bukan sibuk menjual 'ubat kuat' dan 'tahan lasak'.

Tanpa pelan bertindak yang jelas dan jitu, krisis lebih buruk akan berlaku kepada lelaki, khususnya di negara kita.

Sudah tentu perkara pertama adalah mengembalikan mereka kepada fitrah mereka, membawa lelaki kepada agama kerana semua itu bakal mempengaruhi isteri dan anak mereka.

GOSIP itu HOT

2010-12-23T22:15:00.003+08:00

recently i've been wondering n thinking about marriage life as my youngest sis just get married..basically all the memories that we have been through refreshed n remind me the moment we got married..n of course the marriage life after that!woohoo..so i just wanna share with the readers about my friend's status in her FB.

why some ppl just dont get it that ur friend IS someone's husband..dont simply texting him on 3 am in the morning for no good reason.he might be cuddling his wife by then or doing you-know-husband-and-wife-thing!!! damn u ruin my nite..i can't even sleep blaming him rather than u!!!
all the ladies who support me,raise ur hand above me (ala2 beyonce)

Ili Kamilah Tahir: its almost 5 am n i cant sleep bcoz of this person..so..i chase the cencurut all over the hse..#c@R0O+*

Yong Haslina :me me me....both hand raised....with my legs as well
October 7 at 8:04am · LikeUnlike

Ili Kamilah Tahir :tq yong..speaking london i..punye marah ni..kalau laki xpe.ni pompuan...
October 7 at 8:31am · LikeUnlike

ME :sape ni ili?kwn ko ke?
October 7 at 8:44am · LikeUnlike

Ili Kamilah Tahir course group laki aku kat uitm
October 7 at 8:46am · LikeUnlike

Suria Abu Bakar becareful yang,.....
October 7 at 8:47am · LikeUnlike

Ili Kamilah Tahir tq k suria..
October 7 at 8:48am · LikeUnlike

ME: ala..kalau 3am tu mesti tgh bercinta tu!
October 7 at 8:48am · LikeUnlike

Ili Kamilah Tahir tu la pasal..dia nak bcinta dia nye hal,tp jgn la msg laki aku pasal hmework ke whatever skali pon..xreti tunggu matahari terbit ape..
October 7 at 8:51am · LikeUnlike ·

Aziyan Ahmad aiyooo..... ni memang nak kena pelangkong ni..... anje angkat tangan jugak :))
October 7 at 8:52am · LikeUnlike

Ili Kamilah Tahir yess anje tq mmuah :)
October 7 at 8:53am · LikeUnlike

Suria Abu Bakar yang kenai ka si melaun tu,....
October 7 at 8:58am · LikeUnlike

Ili Kamilah Tahir tak knai..tp tau...bukannye rase terancam or jeles ...cume geram dgn org yang dah bsaq panjang tp xbleh pikir..dah tau org tu ade anak bini agak2la nak msg mlm2 buta..
October 7 at 9:00am · LikeUnlike · 1 personLoading...

Nurhafizah Md Noh >Ana : ko jgn la simbaj minyak lg cik kak oii...
k ili : sabar yer...xpun suruh tentera2 kecik tue serang skali...
October 7 at 9:01am · LikeUnlike

Ili Kamilah Tahir fiza:haha ade2 aje..ana takyah simbah pon dah mmg tbakar 3rd degreee dah ni ;p
October 7 at 9:03am · LikeUnlike

Suria Abu Bakar tak per,...luahkan saja apa yang geram dan terpendam,....ramai yg akan menyokong,....
October 7 at 9:03am · LikeUnlike · 1 personLoading...

Ili Kamilah Tahir tu la..syok btol...terubat skit hati yg sakit ni k suria..at least kite tau ramai gak yg hangin kalau bende ni jd kat depa kan..
October 7 at 9:04am · LikeUnlike

ME : ili..lumrah marriage life.. *sigh*
October 7 at 9:07am · LikeUnlike

Ili Kamilah Tahir ana: masa tgh perang we feel like sleeping wif enemy..mase tgh loving2 ade plak yg msg memalam buta..ada aja yg xkena...*sigh3x*
October 7 at 9:09am · LikeUnlike

ME: ha ah kan???i think it happens in every one's marriage life!huhu
October 7 at 9:16am · LikeUnlike · 1 personLoading...

Nadia UmmiNuha ko kasi warning je kat laki ko ili..hehehhee.or ko delete terus sms tu sebelum sempat die baca..ekeke..**devil**
October 7 at 11:08am · LikeUnlike

Ili Kamilah Tahir dia: the sms content is no biggy,biasela school stuff..tp masa dia sms tu xseswai..of coursela..laki aku dah kna warning berkati kati smpai naik lunyai tlinga dia..hehehe
October 7 at 11:18am · LikeUnlike

Nadia UmmiNuha hahaha...bravo..
October 7 at 11:21am · LikeUnlike · 1 personLoading...

Ili Kamilah Tahir biaq pi la org nak kata aku bini queen control ka remote control ka..yg penting i know my rights.. ;p
October 7 at 11:24am · UnlikeLike · 1 personLoading...

Suria Abu Bakar agak dah,....mesti tukaq profile pic punya,..dapat bayang,...mcm mana rupanya klu si rohaizat tu kena warning berkati kati,..silap2 dah mencecah kg dah pun.....
October 7 at 11:58am · LikeUnlike

Majidah Ismail wooooo....dasat hg...best...
October 7 at 12:02pm · LikeUnlike

Abdul Rahim Bin Othman kesian member aku roh..
October 7 at 12:18pm · LikeUnlike

Nur'ain Musa c-an die..pe kate len kali ko text jer pompuan tu balik
October 7 at 5:10pm · LikeUnlike

Ucop Fotografik i'm raise up oso!!
October 7 at 7:23pm · LikeUnlike

Ili Kamilah Tahir niq: pasal ko ksian kat roh,patutnye ko sian kat aku la..aku la mangsa utama dlm kes ni,ewah..yan: aku dah msg balik, ckp elok2, xda pon pompuan tu say sorry ke, buat diam je..laki yan: TQ TQ, majidah: dasat ke?blom tgk aku jd ju on lg..heheh..k suria: eh jap lg tukaq balik..heheh
October 7 at 7:27pm · LikeUnlike

the moral is: all women in this dialog protest it!!dan..sesape setuju dgn saya angkat tgn!!ehehehhe i thinkk its happen in all marriage life..tipu laah kalau rumahtangga x dilanda badai!heheh anyway have fun mengatasi badai tu!especially after 5yrs marriage.muahahhah *gelak jahat* padahal gelakkan diri sendre! uwaaaaaaa

Newly Weds: Sabrina & Huzir

2010-12-23T20:16:00.006+08:00

hye there..its been almost a month since i haven't update the blog!(mcmlah ade org baca blog aku ni) heheh anyway i've been bz prepared for youngest sis's wedding n the ceremony done finally on 11 & 12th Dec.To both of u BERSABARLAH DALAM MENJALANI ALAM RUMAHTANGGA.as the saying goes: if u want somebody to annoy u for the rest of ur life,then GET MARRIED!hahahha so enjoy the pics!

hantarans..

the lovely 4 sisters psstt..baju oren still single beb!

reception at hotel garden.

reception at The Club,bandar utama,PJ.